Comments on: many women ask where have all the good guys gone http://www.adultdatingadultdating.com/stories/07/many-women-ask-where-have-all-the-good-guys-gone/ Adult Dating Stories, Advice, Discussion, and Dating Site Reviews Sat, 30 May 2009 00:14:42 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Heather http://www.adultdatingadultdating.com/stories/07/many-women-ask-where-have-all-the-good-guys-gone/comment-page-1/#comment-6 Heather Tue, 31 Jul 2007 03:09:18 +0000 http://www.adultdatingadultdating.com/stories/07/many-women-ask-where-have-all-the-good-guys-gone/#comment-6 My idea of a good guy is someone who is goal oriented, self-motivated, kind, considerate of others, and is not interested in playing Peter Pan. In other words, a good guy is an adult who is truly a good person. Sooner or later, all of us have to grow up. I wrote, "Where have all the good guys gone?" in response to some guys I know who do not want to grow up and tend to blame their actions on scarcity of "good girls". I have heard some wonderful guys talk about how they cannot find a girl they are interested in, but they are interested in the female equivalent of "guys that are into motocross racing, or guys that are in bands and such." I agree with your analysis. There is a difference between guys that will show a girl a good time and a guy that possesses a good character. It takes a good girl to recognize the difference. My idea of a good guy is someone who is goal oriented, self-motivated, kind, considerate of others, and is not interested in playing Peter Pan. In other words, a good guy is an adult who is truly a good person.

Sooner or later, all of us have to grow up. I wrote, “Where have all the good guys gone?” in response to some guys I know who do not want to grow up and tend to blame their actions on scarcity of “good girls”. I have heard some wonderful guys talk about how they cannot find a girl they are interested in, but they are interested in the female equivalent of “guys that are into motocross racing, or guys that are in bands and such.”

I agree with your analysis. There is a difference between guys that will show a girl a good time and a guy that possesses a good character. It takes a good girl to recognize the difference.

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