Adult Dating Stories, and Advice

I never saw this coming. Yeah, she’s hot, but not my normal type. I know I am not her normal type either. Putting aside the looks stereotypes, could we be a really good match? It’s quite bizarre. There are so many things that I love about her, and things that normally turn me off or have me running the other direction, give me pleasure.

Maybe it’s because she already has a nose ring, but normally I would become less attracted to a woman if she decided to get such a piercing. Maybe it’s the fact that she has all these unusual qualities already, and it’s not major changes, that I am able to accept them and enjoy them. Haven’t quite figured that out yet, but my main worry, is why in the hell am I falling in love with her? We’ve only been out a few times, but her touch brings me peace. Her eyes captivate me. Her lips make me melt. Feeling her makes me want her next to me always.

The things that she does are so amazing, she is considerate, honest, blunt, and different.  She is her own woman. Perhaps I have been with so many chameleon girlfriends that having an honest girl getting intimate with me is just shaking up my world. I can’t wait to learn more about her. I can imagine myself doing things with her that I have not considered in some time.

What crazy timing. Just when I was starting to get my mojo back. Just when I was starting to get multiple dates setup and had the opportunity to explore several different types of relationships, I find myself with an unexpected love. I just hope that if I brush off my other opportunities that she doesn’t turn into an almost lover.

One night I found myself with company unexpected. She was beautiful in a way that I am not normally attracted, and she was not afraid to be near me. I found it quite unusual that she was so calm and she talked to me. I thought I was going to be picking up another girl that night, I had already made plans to spend time with, but I couldn’t take my eyes off another who was calmly hanging around and joining in the conversation.

She wasn’t pushy, nor too obvious, she was subtle, serene and mysterious to me. I wondered if she was just playing some kind of power game, wondered why she fainted interest in me, but her allure seemed genuine and I was captivated by her unusual looks and coy seductiveness.

It turned into an unexpected date, a time for us to explore each other through conversation and body language. With other people around I wondered if they sensed what I was seeing, or if I was seeing just what I wanted to see. I had no idea which was true, but I knew I wanted to know more about her.

It so happened that our unexpected date turned into yet another, a not so perfect time, with a perfect person, whom I am so interested in, and don’t know exactly why. She has arisen feelings in me that have me questioning so many things about myself and my desires. She has me thinking what it could be like on many levels of not just intimacy, but living and being around. Very strange turn of events, all from an unexpected meeting.

This is a story that I am going to learn from. One night I went out with an old flame and her friend thinking that the old flames were extinguished and I could pursue her friend without any issues. Thing wre nice and cordial until after a few drinks I asked her point blank if she had any issues with me having sex with her friends.

She came out with “well which ones?”. At that point I knew this was going to be a problem. I should have taken an exit strategy at that point, but I stayed and we hung out for several more hours, going to another cafe for some food, that’s when things got worse. What I had thought would be a friendly opportunity to get to know a friend’s friend turned into an entirely different situation.

I tried to divert the conversation to non sexual areas, but the cat was already out of the bag about my interest, and the two friends began getting catty with each other, and it turned into a kind of a 2 hour long fight. Not that the whole time was a fight, it just flared up, off and on.

So I learned not to set up a date with a potential love or sex  interest with an ex that has not already been pre qualified to being open to you dating her friends, otherwise it could turn into a long night that you know will go nowhere.